The People Pleaser’s Weight

In this deeply personal episode, I open up about what it means to be a woman—specifically a fat woman—in a world built for men and designed to reward thinness. From childhood, people-pleasing to shrinking myself emotionally in relationships, I share the raw truth of how I spent years chasing validation and trying to be "easy to love" instead of learning to love myself.

We talk about the “pick me” mindset, how it’s shaped by society's treatment of bigger bodies, and the quiet ways it steals our voices—at work, in friendships, and in love. I share stories from my marriage, my friendships, my hoe era (yep), and the moments that woke me up to my own worth.

If you’ve ever felt unseen, unheard, or like you had to earn love by doing the most… this episode is for you.